Thursday, September 2, 2021

dear diary: hate your haters

11. dear diary hate your haters
You know the whole you shouldn't care what other people think and ignore your haters and (even going the religious route) love thy brother? That's all cute and everything on paper but I've already lost hope in everything and everyone (kind of) and I call all of that BS. I was bullied on Instagram last week on one of those profiles that re-posts other people's content because I uploaded some stories telling my followers and friends that, since my birthday is coming up, I created a wish list on Amazon to see if someone might get me a present... AND PEOPLE WENT MAD! 

All of the sudden, it wasn't even about the content of my stories, it was about my hair, my face, my skin tone, my teeth, jaw, my mental health, my economic status, my job... Terrible people saying terrible things, some of them even went to my profile to send hate messages. And I wonder, is that the best they can do with their free time? Is hating on unproblematic strangers their emotional outlet? If it is, it's really sad.

I'm not good with unreasonable hate, I don't ever post hateful comments on social media or call people names. In the past, I've done some influencer parodies or secret exposing but I never directed them at anyone in particular, these profiles are way different. I want them to know that someone on the other side of the screen is receiving their hate, I want them to feel bad about it, HATE YOUR HATERS, I say. If enough people start seeing these actions as harmful instead of entertaining and they start doing something about them, then there might be a chance for redemption. 

Think about it, you never know when one of those "funny" posts or comments will send someone over the edge and end up with irreparable consequences. Does it still feel funny or entertaining when you're the one suffering? When someone you like is suffering? When someone harms themselves because of what you said or did to be "funny"? Give this a thought next time you face a similar situation and if you know someone who's doing harmful things to others, try to put a stop to it. 

// ¿Ubican todo eso que dicen de que no te importe lo que los demás piensen o ignora a la gente que te molesta y (vámonos hasta un poco religiosos) amarás a tu prójimo? Esas son puras ideas bonitas en papel pero ya perdí esperanza en todo y en todos (algo así) y digo que es una estupidez. Me hicieron bullying en Instagram la semana pasada en una de esas cuentas que recopila contenido de otros porque subí unas historias diciéndole a mis seguidores y amigos que, como se acerca mi cumpleaños, hice una lista de regalos en Amazon por si alguien quiere regalarme algo... ¡Y LA GENTE SE ENFURECIÓ! 

De repente ya ni siquiera era sobre el contenido, era sobre mi cabello, mi cara, mi tono de piel, mis dientes, mandíbula, mi salud mental, mi estado económico, mi trabajo... Gente horrible diciendo cosas horribles, incluso algunos fueron directamente a mi perfil a mandar mensajes de odio. Y yo me pregunto: ¿es eso lo mejor que tienen que hacer con su tiempo? ¿Es tirarle odio a personas no problemáticas su escape emocional? Si es así, me a tristeza.

No soy bueno con el odio irracional, nunca publico comentarios de odio en redes sociales o insulto a las personas. En el pasado, he hecho algunas parodias o revelaciones de secretos de influencers pero jamás dirigidas a alguien en particular, estos perfiles son otra cosa. Quiero que sepan que alguien en el otro lado de la pantalla está recibiendo su odio, quiero que se sientan mal al respecto: ODIEN A SUS HATERS, yo digo. Si suficiente gente empieza a ver estas acciones como hirientes en lugar de entretenidas y empiezan a hacer algo al respecto, es ahí cuando habrá oportunidades de redención.

Hay que pensarlo, nunca sabes cuándo una de esas publicaciones o comentarios chistosos van a empujar a alguien más allá del límite, terminando con consecuencias irreparables. ¿Todavía se siente gracioso o entretenido cuando tú eres el que sufre, cuando alguien a quien quieres está sufriendo, cuando alguien se inflige daño por lo que dijiste o hiciste para ser chistoso? Piensa en esto la próxima vez que te enfrentes a una situación similar y si sabes de alguien que está haciendo cosas dañinas a otros, trata de ponerle un alto.
Love always,

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