Monday, November 10, 2014

People Movin'


I'm wearing:

1. Silver leather jacket, from Asos.
2. Cut and sew black and white t-shirt, from Asos.
3. Paneled skinny jeans, from H&M.
4. Suede Chelsea boots, from Asos.
5. Wide brim hat, from Wonderplace Korea.
It's been almost two weeks since November started and I feel like I haven't tackled the monthly theme like I'm supposed to. I said that the whole month would revolve around the idea of being alone vs. having company, just sayin this to refresh your memory, haha.

Well, let me begin by telling you that I've always been a lonely person; it's very hard for me to open up to people and make friends and I don't follow the classic friendship rituals, ha. I'm that guy that doesn't really speak to anybody on the first week of school, that prefers to read instead of trying to socialize, that fades in big crowds... I've learned to be okay with that. 

Don't get me wrong, I love people and I love to hang out and go to parties and chat but, most of the time, I prefer to be alone. I see people moving in and out from different scenarios, from school, from life. Movement is important, meeting people too. It's all about learning how to deal with different personalities in the best way possible. What's your take on this? I'd love to hear your opinion.

// Ya van casi dos semanas desde que empezó noviembre y siento que no he abordado el tema mensual como he debido. Dije que todo el mes giraría en torno a la idea de estar solo vs. estar acompañado, sólo digo esto para refrescarles la memoria, jaja.

Pues, déjenme comenzar diciéndoles que siempre he sido una persona solitaria; es muy difícil abrirme a las personas y hacer amigos y no sigo los clásicos rituales de la amistad, ja. Soy ese chavito que no le habla a nadie en la primera semana de clases, que prefiere leer a socializar, que desaparece en los grupos grandes... He aprendido a estar bien con eso.

No me malinterpreten, amo a la gente y amo convivir, ir a fiestas y platicar pero, la mayor parte del tiempo, prefiero estar solo. Veo a la gente entrar y salir de distintos escenarios, de la escuela, de la vida. Moverse es importante, conocer gente también. Se trata de aprender cómo lidiar con diferentes personalidades en la mejor manera posible. ¿Qué piensan de esto? Me encantaría saber su opinión.
Love always,
Hen.

2 comments:

  1. I find this post really relating to myself as I'm quite an awkward guy myself, i think anyone would have their struggles in meeting new people but as time goes by, we learn to deal with it and new friends will come 2 us :D Love the look u've created, mate, always a big fan of metallic hat and big bowler hat xx Happy weekend, mate :D

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